Why Radical Feminism Bothers Me
And How it Affects the Church
According to the
dictionary definition of feminism, “an organized movement for the attainment of
women’s rights,” I am a feminist. I believe that women on a social, political and
economic level deserve to have equal rights with men. I believe they should be
able to vote and to work outside of the home, to name a couple… all beliefs
that general feminism supports.
On the other, more
important hand, I believe in the Bible. That’s where feminist issues of
abortion and other such topics are lost for me. My stance as a believer and
follower of Christ far outweighs any belief of equality that I hold between men
and women.
The problem with
feminism, is that many people don’t understand the difference between common
feminism (what I described above) and radical feminism. Radical feminism, to
me, is the “bra burning” and “I don’t need a man to tell me how to think” sort
of mentality. These women feel the need to shove their views into other women’s
faces on a daily basis, especially if they don’t believe in living the same
way. This is where radical feminism finds its “fatal flaw,” its Achilles’ heel,
so to speak.
Supposedly,
feminists seek to lift fellow women up and empower women to live an
extraordinary life. The problem that they don’t realize is by having such
radical beliefs, they are also tearing women down. Now, before anyone gets up
in arms, I am generalizing right now. I am not in any way claiming that each
and every woman with radical beliefs also shoves it on other women. To speak in
generals, I have seen a lot of feminists on social media and other outlets
speaking their views of “empowerment” in a very degrading way. Which brings me
to my main point.
One huge belief of
radical feminism is that a woman should not need a man to tie her down. Even though
I believe that this is true for some women, feminists take it to a whole new
level. They inadvertently knock women down who have chosen this as their
lifestyle. By bashing the white picket fence, married young, bare-foot and
pregnant lifestyle, they are destroying that which they seek to build up, women’s
confidence.
For a woman that
is happily living that lifestyle, radical feminism is a big thing that can
really strip her of her feelings of self-worth and value. Some of the ideals
make her feel as though she is not contributing to society because she doesn’t
work 40 hours a week and can be like poison to her confidence and identity as a
valuable woman.
As women we must
ask ourselves, are we truly building up other members of our gender? Or are we
just putting them in a box? These questions are especially important to ask
ourselves if we consider ourselves members of the Church.
In 1 Corinthians
12:12-14 it says, “Just as a body, though one, has many parts, but all its many
parts form one body, so it is with Christ. For we were all baptized by one
Spirit so as to form one body—whether Jews or Gentiles, slave or free—and we
were all given the one Spirit to drink. Even so the body is not made up of one
part but of many.”
Radical feminism
does not offer unity, rather; it offers conformity. I think the true goal of
feminism should be to build each woman up, remembering that we are all baptized
in one Spirit and make up one body. Let us be wise in the ways that we use our
words, so that we can effectively be one body of women, united for the purpose
of spreading the Gospel and the love of Christ to all those that we encounter.
Whether in the workplace or in the home, we can all work together and encourage
one another to be beacons of light in a dark and dreary world.
"By bashing the white picket fence, married young, bare-foot and pregnant lifestyle, they are destroying that which they seek to build up, women’s confidence."
ReplyDeleteYes! It is so important to encourage and build up women, regardless of their relationship statuses, work choices, or mindsets.
Great post!